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Tuesday, November 19, 2013
Thursday, November 7, 2013
Food for thought...
"People tell you who they are, but we ignore it because we want them to be who we want them to be"-Don Draper
Wednesday, November 6, 2013
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
Relation$hips Cost....
If you plan to be in a relationship, YOU will have to spend money. I repeat you will have to spend money, "mula", Deniro, guap, whatever you want to call it.
Depending on the type of person you are with, will determine around how much you will be spending, but, when they said "nothing in this world is free" the beautiful romance wasn't excluded! Now being that men left us with the job to be the nurturers it just so happen traditionally men are the "providers". And no, I'm not only talking about providing what's in your pants for you clueless ones, I'm speaking of treating your woman to a movie, dinner shit even buy something and cook for her if you're a homebody. Providing time and energy is also included. There are men that think they can go an entire relationship by saying "I love you", laying a woman on her back, and texting her kissy faces and then the job's done, while I can barely blame the men because the women accept it, that's not the way it goes! Then the women who demand a date, and demand a time sound "annoying" because of the women that settled.
Relationships cost. I cannot stress this enough, Whether it's Money, Time, or sacrifices.
I'm also not saying that because he is a man, and he is supposed to be the provider (if were going to follow traditional rules) that it is always on him to cut the check but please don't be one of those blinded women that get wrapped up and fall in love with empty promises rather than what he is actually doing. Granted, every one has hard times but if he can afford Call of Duty, he can at least treat your ass to some cookies! If you don't require it, he WON'T do it. You cannot force a man to change but, you can show him what you will and will not accept.
I sat through a Stephen A Smith (Sports analyst/commentator) lecture a few weeks ago and something he said really stuck out to me. He stated "If your family is hungry, it should be because you're starving". He made it clear he was speaking to the men in the room but that caused me to think. It is a man's position to provide. You can help, when married it goes 50/50 but it should always be his priority to make sure you are well off.
Women are making it hard for other women, and easier for lazy men by deeming it OKAY to sex her and give empty promises of all he will do by allowing it.
Stop letting him gas you with the "babe I would take you out but I'd rather spend time alone with just me and you" yes while that is beautiful sometimes, if you want to go out stop settling dammit, speak up or be miserable and watch another movie on Netflix Saturday night.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6LsIcoL824
Depending on the type of person you are with, will determine around how much you will be spending, but, when they said "nothing in this world is free" the beautiful romance wasn't excluded! Now being that men left us with the job to be the nurturers it just so happen traditionally men are the "providers". And no, I'm not only talking about providing what's in your pants for you clueless ones, I'm speaking of treating your woman to a movie, dinner shit even buy something and cook for her if you're a homebody. Providing time and energy is also included. There are men that think they can go an entire relationship by saying "I love you", laying a woman on her back, and texting her kissy faces and then the job's done, while I can barely blame the men because the women accept it, that's not the way it goes! Then the women who demand a date, and demand a time sound "annoying" because of the women that settled.
Relationships cost. I cannot stress this enough, Whether it's Money, Time, or sacrifices.
I'm also not saying that because he is a man, and he is supposed to be the provider (if were going to follow traditional rules) that it is always on him to cut the check but please don't be one of those blinded women that get wrapped up and fall in love with empty promises rather than what he is actually doing. Granted, every one has hard times but if he can afford Call of Duty, he can at least treat your ass to some cookies! If you don't require it, he WON'T do it. You cannot force a man to change but, you can show him what you will and will not accept.
I sat through a Stephen A Smith (Sports analyst/commentator) lecture a few weeks ago and something he said really stuck out to me. He stated "If your family is hungry, it should be because you're starving". He made it clear he was speaking to the men in the room but that caused me to think. It is a man's position to provide. You can help, when married it goes 50/50 but it should always be his priority to make sure you are well off.
Women are making it hard for other women, and easier for lazy men by deeming it OKAY to sex her and give empty promises of all he will do by allowing it.
Stop letting him gas you with the "babe I would take you out but I'd rather spend time alone with just me and you" yes while that is beautiful sometimes, if you want to go out stop settling dammit, speak up or be miserable and watch another movie on Netflix Saturday night.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6LsIcoL824
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