Today my topic is life after death, or something with death. I lost the most beautiful genuine woman in my life, my momma in May. My heart still aches but I've learned to accept the fact that death is INEVITABLE. There's not a tear wet enough, a scream loud enough, or a bargain worthy enough to bring the person back or resist Mr. Death (let's face it, he breaks hearts so he has to be a man! LOL J.K)
There's many people that believe when we die, thats it. its just dark and black and there's nothing after, now I'm a person that love all opinions and all people so while I respect this belief I'd have to say I disagree. I've been on cruises to different places, and you know what makes me believe that there is a plan for us and a God, and a life after death....none other than the ocean. It always amazes me how the water just flows while the earth is supposedly moving every second. While I'm not in any way offending or aiming to knock non believers, I do encourage those who do not believe to take a trip, a vacation. Smell a different whiff of air, look out into a different location's sky, meet different people. There HAS to be more than life.
My advice to any one else grieving. CRY! SCREAM! CHOKE! LAUGH! PARTY! Do WHATEVER helps you but don't stay stuck in stage one. Make sure you're working toward that stage of acceptance. I won't say I'm over my mom's death, I'll probably never get over it but I am learning how to live with it. And what helps me is breaking down crying whenever I feel like it. I go out and speak to people, express myself (as I'm doing now). Most of all just be thankful that you got to be around that person, that you had an opportunity to even be in their presence, I do believe one will forever live in your heart. And I do believe in transition (thanks to Miss Tracy for reminding me of that). To my mom I'm forever grateful that I was blessed to have a mother like you, I may have lost you at a young age, and I often whine of God taking my gem "too soon" but I will not question what was meant to be, I'll just hold the memories dear to my heart. Love you and you better not be worrying about me, just Rest in Peace!
